Kassondra L. Wilson, PLLC.

Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Gender Counseling in Washington State

Helping Adult Individuals Who Are Confused About Their Gender or Who Are in the Early Stages of Transition Toward a Gender Affirming Life Stop Being Ashamed of Themselves and Start Being Proud of Who They Are!

Sometimes gender is freaking confusing. Perhaps right now, it’s one of those times.


Most people who start Gender Counseling feel lost in life on some level, unsure of how to find their way. Perhaps you can relate. Maybe you feel like you want to escape your life or you know you’d be happier if you made changes but it feels safer and more comfortable to stay the same.


Stuck in negativity and feeling uncomfortable all the time, you may feel like life is being wasted on being unhappy.



Do You Feel Insecure, Scared, Overwhelmed?


Do any of the following resonate with you?


You feel lonely, even when you are with others?

You sometimes wake up feeling like you’re dying?

You feel dread, fear, strange thoughts, and a pounding heart?

You feel fear stricken, even in the “comfort” of your own home?

You feel like you are wandering through life, feeling like something is missing or your balance is “off”?


If any of these sound true for you, I want you to know that you might feel embarrassed to open up about what you’re really going through, even to family and friends. Therapy provides a non-judgemental space for you to talk freely about what’s bothering you.


Even if you don’t believe you deserve care, you do. You deserve to take care of yourself.



Gender Counseling Can Help You Gain The Courage To Be Your True Self

It’s possible to feel better. Imagine a life where you could…


Figure out who you are and what direction to go in next.

Finally be free from years of constant anxiety and panic attacks.

Improve your relationship with yourself and those you choose to share yourself with.

Create a more meaningful life based on who you are and what you desire.

Change your life for the better.




Find The Truth About Your Gender Identity


Gender Counseling helps you rise above your challenges and start moving towards your ideal life with less confusion and more confidence!


You will get the mindset you need to discover things about yourself that you haven’t realized before and shed your skin and grow into the person you wish to be.


Even if you are not usually comfortable opening up to people, Gender Counseling may be the thing that ends up being the key to your change.


Reaching out to a therapist about feelings around gender can be really scary. I’ve helped many folx explore their gender identity and develop the language to express this untaught subject. My clients report feeling more confident in their gender expressions, a reduction of their experiences with dysphoria, and greater clarity around gender affirming medical interventions. With clarity comes empowerment.


My name is Kassondra Wilson and I am a sexual and gender identity specialist who is here to help.




How Gender Counseling Works


Gender Counseling consists of 55-minute, weekly one-on-one sessions that help you work through your concerns. In addition to listening, I will guide you towards solutions, I play an active role. Here’s how it will work step-by-step:


1. First, I provide a safe, accepting space so that you will feel comfortable sharing your struggles with me.
2. Through hearing your story, I will start to get a picture of what your challenges are.
3. We will start with helping you with immediate concerns like managing difficult emotions and challenging life situations.
3. We will also work to discover what your goals are in therapy and in life.
4. Keeping your unique goals in mind, we’ll figure out what’s needed to help you reach them.
5. If you choose to seek medical interventions, support letters can be provided at any time.
6. Over the course of our sessions, you will start making progress towards the life you desire.


Research shows that Gender Counseling can positively change your thinking, beliefs, emotions, and behaviors. It can help you let go of what’s holding you back.




Let’s Get Started Today

Ready to start feeling better?


If you feel lost in life on some level, unsure of how to find your way, Gender Counseling could be an option for you to consider.


Start now and stop being ashamed of your gender identity. I want for you to feel proud of who you are. During your free phone consultation you can start getting a feel for how I can help and we can discuss next steps.